What To Do When Someone Dies?
Losing someone close to you is incredibly hard, and during grief, it can be difficult to face the practical tasks that follow. If you were especially close to the person who has died, it’s likely that many of these responsibilities will fall to you. This can feel overwhelming, particularly when you’re also coping with a deep sense of loss. In the first few days, you may feel numb or find yourself experiencing waves of emotion — both are completely natural. While it may be hard, there are a few important things that will need to be taken care of during this time.
What to Do in the First Few Days After Someone Dies
Losing someone you care about is never easy. Amid the emotions and shock, there are a few practical things that need to be done in the first few days. It can feel like a lot, so take things one step at a time - and don't be afraid to ask for help.
1. Get a Medical Certificate
You’ll need a medical certificate showing the cause of death, which will be issued by a doctor — either from the hospital or the person's GP. This is the document you’ll need to register the death.
2. Register the Death (Within 5 Days)
The next step is to register the death at your local register office. This should be done within five days (eight in Scotland). Once registered, you’ll receive the paperwork needed to arrange the funeral.
3. Arrange the Funeral
Most people choose to use a funeral director to help organise the funeral, but it’s also possible to make the arrangements yourself if you prefer.
Helpful government guidance is available depending on where you live:
If the Death Occurred Abroad
If someone passes away while overseas, the death will need to be registered in the country where it happened. The British Consulate in that country can guide you through the process and offer support with the necessary arrangements.
For advice and assistance, you can contact the Foreign, Commonwealth & Development Office on 020 7008 1500. available 24/7 to help with what can be a very difficult time.